The Celebration of the Sacraments

The liturgical life of the church is grounded in the celebration of the sacraments: Baptism, Confirmation, Eucharist, Reconciliation, Anointing of the Sick, Matrimony and Holy Orders. These seven sacraments are effective signs of grace entrusted to the church by Christ that we each might share in the divine life. Through these rituals we are nourished, healed, and united to the Lord and one another as the Body of Christ.

It is the whole community, the body of Christ, united with its head, which celebrates each of the sacraments. Thus, sacramental celebrations are always community celebrations and never private functions. To make visible the communal aspect of the sacraments, the church's preference is that they be celebrated within a significant gathering of the local community whenever possible. For the sacraments of initiation (i.e. Baptism, Confirmation and First Eucharist), this significant gathering of the local community takes place most clearly at the Sunday Eucharist.

Thus, we invite young families to celebrate the baptism of their new infants with the extended parish family gathered for Sunday mass. Given the size of our church and the number of young people preparing for the sacraments of Confirmation and First Eucharist, it is possible for us to celebrate these sacraments at Sunday liturgies.

Request Forms

Below is a list of request forms for the various sacraments. These are PDF fill-in forms, which you can complete and save to your computer or print and scan.
Email completed forms to Francine Harkins at

The Sacraments

Parents must call the parish office one month in advance to schedule a Baptism. They must also attend a one hour class. Baptisms are arranged at the convenience of those involved.
Click on this link to view the request form. These are PDF fill-in forms, which you can complete and save to your computer or print and scan.
Email completed forms to Francine Harkins at

Confessions are heard on Saturday from 4:00 to 4:55 PM or at the rectory at any time by appointment. During Lent, Advent and Holy Days, special times are scheduled and publicized in the bulletin.

Click on this link to view the guidelines for suitability of sponsorship for Baptism or Confirmation

First Reconciliation and First Eucharist
Children are prepared in the home setting by their parents and families. Parents are required to attend preparation sessions. Children must be enrolled in our Religious Education Program for two consecutive years if not attending parochial school.

This is a two-year process taking place in ninth and tenth grades. If students are not attending parochial school, they are required to be enrolled in our Religious Education Program in addition to regularly scheduled confirmation classes.

Congratulations on your Engagement!

Planning A Catholic Wedding: Marriage as a Vocation

The Vatican II document Gaudium et Spes and Pope John Paul II's Familiaris Consortio remind us that the way to holiness for a couple is through their vocation of marriage. "Filled with the spirit of Christ they grow in holiness and give glory to God together." Marriage could possibly be called the model vocation, as in their married life the couple is called to mirror the way Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25) and be a sign of this for the whole community.

Not only the couple but "the Christian family, reflecting and sharing in the covenant of love between Christ and the Church should show to all, the living presence of Christ and the real nature of the Church. The family will do this "through the mutual love of husband and wife, their generosity in giving life, their unity and faithfulness, and by the loving way in which all the members of the family work together."

Like any vocation, this, of course, isn't easy. It demands sacrifice, great virtue, and prayer. Couples are called to take part in a renewal of married life, to instruct young people about marriage and to give a good example so that their children will more easily find the path to holiness.

Engaged couples wishing to marry in the church should contact one of the parish priests or deacon at least one year prior to the planned wedding date to begin the marriage preparation process. It is expected that one of the parties be living within the boundaries of the parish or if not be a registered member of the parish. Those outside the parish wishing to be married in the parish are expected to have a good reason along with permission of their pastor. The preparation program presumes regular church attendance and consists of meetings with the priest or deacon who will officiate, participation in the Diocesan Pre-Cana and/or Engaged Encounter Program(s). To register, visit

Marriage Preparation Class (Pre-Cana) information
Marriage Preparation Class (Pre-Cana) will continue to be held online in August, September, October, November, and December. As a reminder, online Marriage Preparation classes are not the preferred method for administering the curriculum. However, be assured that the integrity and quality of the online Marriage Preparation Program has not been compromised due to the online platform.

Contact Colleen Lindsey, Director, at or 302-295-0657 or
Eileen Gaus, Pre-Cana Coordinator, at or 302-295-0657 with questions.

Below are general references you can use in preparation for your wedding:

Sacrament of the Sick
Anointing for any seriously ill parishioner may be requested at the parish office. The priests, deacon and special ministers are most willing to visit the sick in hospitals, nursing homes or family homes. Primary care givers are not responsible for notifying the rectory. Therefore it is requested that members of the family notify the rectory of this need.

Bereavement and Funerals
Wakes, viewings, and visitations may take place in the church at the pastor’s discretion. Words of remembrance, or eulogies, may also be permitted at the pastor’s discretion while following previous guidance of only one eulogy with a five-minute time limit.

You can visit our Cemetery page for more information.

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